Monday, March 26, 2012

THE FIGHTER Talk 1: Focus on the Good

Fr. Larry Sugiano, in his homily, talked about the virtues of St. Joseph, whose feast we celebrate last Monday. He said that St. Joseph's role in Jesus' birth is of utmost significance owing to his obedience to and faith in God. He was a caring husband to Mary and a good father to Jesus. Hence, Jesus had great love and respect for him.

Then the lights were switched off and a voice hollered within the four walls of the venue: "Let's get ready to rummmbbbllllle! Ladies and gentlemen, presenting, the heavyweight champion of the Lord (drumrolllll)... Bro. Jay Yogawin!!!!"

The introduction created enough ruckus and laughter among the attended. More importantly, it is signaled the start of a new series: THE FIGHTER which is about temptations that lead us to sin.


The round girl ushered in round 1: Focus on the good. Romans 8:5-11 says "And is the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, he
who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies because of his Spirit who lives in you."


STOP IT! This is how to knockout temptation, Bro. Jay said, showing a comedy video to stress his point. Temptation is not an external problem but an internal one and it is powerless if it does not have allies within us.
Bro Jay compared sinning to the literary epic Aenid. He explained that the Greek soldier inside the Trojan Horse stand for one big reason we fall into sin. He said it's not lust, not greed, not pride. These three play only supporting roles to the Devil's greatest weapon, the

greatest weapon, the nuclear bomb that he uses to bring souls to hell: self rejection.
Four youthful servants displayed their thespian skills by playing devils of lust, greed, pride and self-rejection.

Bro. Jay pointed out that behind every sin is a cry for love due to
inner wounds inflicted by people who tell us we are not good enough or from bad experiences that make us conclude we are rejects. so, our deepest hunger is to be accepted, to be loved. And when that need is not satisfied, we look for ways to temporarily meet that need so we fall into sin. The pleasure of sin is the pirated version of the pleasure of being loved.

Signs that you have a Trojan Horse within you: 1) You don't love yourself. You always think you need to prove yourself to someone; 2) Your relationships are dysfunctional. You can't perceive the love of people around you. It is difficult for you to love and express love; 3. You worship a judgmental God. You think God also rejects you because of your sin.

When we have these symptoms, we always think that somebody, not ourselves, can complete us. We think that we have trials because we are being punished by God. We forget that god does not look at the wrong we did. he loves us so much He died on the cross for us. And it is this love that makes us repent and change.

Bro. Jay concluded:
"Love is expensive and sin is cheap. Engaging in sin is just fooling ourselves. We think it's making us complete. In truth, God's love and mercy has made us all complete. Love is expensive but we are worth it."

Just before the love offering, Bro. Rhine exhorted the attendees to give more by sharing his personal story on tithing. He said that because he tithes, he's been blessed tremendously which confirms that our God is a faithful God whose generosity cannot be outdone.


The Feast was made even more blissful by the Music Ministers and spirited by the Dance Ministers wjo were joined by our young brothers and sisters from the Fire of God Community. Towards the end, everybody, young and not so young, danced in front to honor and worship our loving God.



Monday, March 19, 2012

New Series: The Fighter


We've got it all wrong.
We've been fighting in the wrong boxing ring.
The arena of the fight isn't outside us. The arena of the fight is inside us.
No wonder we've been losing!
What am I talking about? It's about how we have lost to temptation.
We thing of temptation as an external problem. It's the magnetic pull of a casino to a gambler.
Or the smell of beer to an alcoholic.
Or the alluring girl in the office that still blows kisses at your direction even if she knows you're married.
But you know what?
All these temptations are totally powerless if they don't have allies working within you.
Yes, it's an "inside job".
And the solution isn't fighting the battle outside you (at least, not right away), but fighting the battle that's raging in you. Today, we start a brand new series titled The Fighter. You'll be very blessed by these three myth-busting talks...

Talk 1: Focus on The Good
Talk 2: Friend with the Good
Talk 3: Fight for the Good

Get ready to turn your life around...

Have a Fantastic Feast.

Saturday, September 24, 2011

The Real Score: Forgiveness


At Last week's Feast the Gospel was taken from Matthew 20:1-16, about the generosity of God. Rev. Fr. Jaime said during his homily that "All of us are equal in the eyes of God, we are all His children. He gives and blesses all his children. No one deserves God's blessings, but because He is generous, he chooses to bless us."

The series ended last week with a talk on FORGIVENESS. It was very enlightening and liberating. Bro. Buddy gave 2 clarifications about forgiveness which are:
  1. Forgiveness is different from friendship - When you forgive someone it doesn't mean you'll be friend with him again.
  2. When the hurt is very deep, don't forgive right away - By getting angry we restore our dignity. This process is part of your healing.
If you really want to be happy in your life, you need to have a forgiving attitude because you live amidst imperfect people and you are imperfect too. In the Bible Jesus said, "Forgive seventy times seven." The number is a Biblical symbol for "forever".

Bro. Buddy put emphasis on this, "Forgiveness is first of all a gift you give yourself. Forgiveness is almost as selfish act because of the incredible blessings the forgiver gets!"

But the root of unforgiveness is our inability to forgive ourselves. If we don't receive God's mercy, we can't give mercy to others. Let us stop trying to pay for our sins instead let us rest in His mercy.

To end, Bro. Buddy stated that forgiveness is being kind beyond what is reasonable, in 1 Corinthians 13 it says, "Love does not keep a record of wrongs."

Brothers and sisters, let us all forgive sincerely and be free!